Why are Christians so....mean?

I dont try to hide it even when I am with people that don’t like Christians. (I just do everything I can do, not be one of “those” christians) 

I got to thinking… What would happen if I googled “why are christians so”.. what would the autofill comeback with… 

The response above leaves me with a sinking question…

How could there not be 1 thing on this list that should mark someone that follows Jesus?

I wish I could change this autofill to 

So Loving

So Graceful

So Caring

So Compassionate

So Happy

So Joyful

So Hopeful

The answers to the other questions have nothing to do with what it means to be a christian. This is how we are known… This is how we are searched. 

- thanks to Laura